But it can work for us men as well. I went through a very rough time after my divorce and lost every social contact I had and I tried to keep it on inside because, as you said, no emotions. Until at one time I broke down and couldn’t stop crying for longer than five minutes, no matter where I was or what I did. Then a random woman from my neighborhood picked me up, made sure I had someone to talk to, convinced me to get professional help and adopted me to her circle of friends. That helped me so much I can’t put in words how thankful I still am. I haven’t recovered fully, but I’m feeling way better.
She and her wife both are. I’m not sure where I’d be without them, but I’m pretty sure I’d be miserable.